This weekend marked the end of my almost five month celibacy period. We were connected and the sparks just started flying. It was beautiful and perfect. Sex hasn’t felt this right in such a very long time. No pretenses, no expectation, just right. So far, I’m not regretting my decision. However, I do have my concerns, especially about whether or not my husband will be able to maintain his sobriety. But, that will be his battle to overcome. This may be a one time encounter, not sure yet, but I’m just going to go with my gut feeling on this – keep doing what feels right to me.
Hey! That’s great! Good for you. I think it’s wonderful that you aren’t regreting.
I’m into month seven now of my celibacy and have no idea how much longer it will be. It’s good to know there are others blazing on, after disclosure.
Woo-hoo for healthy sex! 🙂
-B
Woo-hoo!! I’m no expert on “healthy sex”, but this was pretty good and still no regrets. We’ll see what my therapist has to say about this new development 🙂